The best people to speak to about relationships are those in them, this is a post about seeking a marriage partner.
If you're like me, you have created a list. You know the list...of what you will or will not tolerate when looking for a mate. Much of this is superficial, like how tall, or skin color, or type of hair.
Others are more crucial, at least to us. Until recently I would not consider marrying someone with kids, and I still refuse to marry a smoker; but most things on our top 10 list are probably keeping us from the marriage of our dreams.
Sadly, most compromise on the most important "do nots" when it comes to relationships, but are holding to the unimportant things religiously.
I am becoming more convinced that I need to focus on the right requirements and burn my superficial fantasy list. Perhaps you too need to consider that as well. We may be blessed by it.
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