NOTCHES

I am sure you have seen it.

Young ladies who seem to be sleeping around with everyone, looking for the affection they never got from their real daddies.  Not sure exactly what the connection is with sexual relationships and fatherly love, but that is what plays out many times. 

Have you also noticed a flipside to this sad situation?

Imagine Jay-Z's "give it to me" playing a a get together and a little baby girl no older than 4 is doing her little baby dance, you know that dance with the rhythmic squating action.  Right as the part goes "when the remy's in the system, ain't no telling will I _____ them or diss them" starts there is a grown man with money in his mouth on his knees moving his head like a snake to the rhythm in from of the cute little girl.  Awwww....right?

"Gimmie that funk that sweet that nasty that gushy stuff"

What if that man was the girl's father?

I don't know why this happened in my dream, but all I can remember was that I was the man and I was asking myself why would I be doing this with my daughter? (Which I don't have)

However these are the kinds of things we do to our young ladies and daughters and I don't see the wisdom in it.  TRAIN UP A CHILD IN THE WAY THEY SHOULD GO, not in the way they should hoe.  I just feel that many don't take the time to consider the psychological impact on their children because they don't see how it effects them.  I only ask that you pray and seek God's wisdom.